One memory I have of my grandma is we all went to Memphis -- me, mum, and my grandparents -- and dropped my grandma off at the Memphis International Airport because she went somewhere, but I cannot remember where she went. But I do remember that my grandad was in a total rage about something and took it out on me when we were going back to West Helena. He was a very angry, abusive man but he hid it very well. So much so that I wanted to vomit whenever anyone would tell me what a great man he was!!! He also cheated on my grandma when she was bedridden before she died!!!